Avyakt BapDada 28th November 1979
Today, BapDada was looking at the children of the last kalpa, those who are long lost and now found again, that lucky handful out of millions, those who have recognised Baba, that sepcial group which is claiming its inheritance.
: Today Baba was looking in particular at those who are living in the family: householders. Baba was seeing children everywhere in the context of their household, and their workplace, and their families, and checking the extent to which they remained beyond the effect of impure (tamoguni) matter and other difficulties. He was also watching the effect of the unstable political situation.
Viewing all this, he saw how wonderful some children are, how they remain detached while living within the household. Keeping Baba as their constant companion, and playing their part as observers, they serve as practical examples before the world. They constantly experience the protective umbrella of Baba’s remembrance, and are safe from the battle with Maya’s numerous forms of attraction. Seeing such totally unique children who are detached from the whole world, Baba was singing their praises. Baba saw some children who, whilst living in their households, constantly kept the company of the truth, and so were constantly pleasing to the Lord. Those who understand the significance of being detached yet loving are constantly able to remain content, and to make their households content. They also make BapDada content. They never need to appoint a judge for themselves or for those in their connection, because there is never a case created.
If you have a problem then sit with Baba and a decision can be made in one second. The situation should be clarified and merged so that it goes no further. If it were to come to the attention of a third person, it would definitely spread. The more something spreads, the greater the significance that is attached to it. A spreading fire causes greater and greater damage. Fire must be extinguished there and then, and not allowed to spread. There should be nothing which is allowed to spread through the family to other souls. If there is dissatisfaction with the self or with other souls, then it is because the significance of some aspect of knowledge has been missed. When you appoint a lawyer, then even a tiny matter becomes a large case. By speaking to a third the matters of your household will circulate outside. So you yourself should arrive at an instant decision. Other than Baba, there should be no third one consulted.
It is good to have the relationship of husband and wife with Baba, but some think that because the husband is incorporeal and the wife corporeal, the two are not able to meet to a sufficient extent. Sometimes the meeting, takes place and at other times it does not. Sometimes the heart to heart conversation takes place and sometimes it doesn’t. And because a reply is not received, it becomes necessary to appoint a judge. Baba can make you fly in one second to the subtle regions, but you must be able to leave the corporeal region. The meeting place is the angelic region, and the time is fixed by a set appointment. So why does the meeting not take place? You try to carry mud with you: the mud is this body. Yes, when you want to use the mud, use it, but at the time of the meeting it is necessary to renounce the consciousness of the body. Your costume should be the same as Baba’s. Always wear this costume and then you will arrive at the meeting place. This costume is fire-proof and water-proof and safe from Maya. It is also beyond the influence and thoughts and vibrations of the old world.
You have been given such a beautiful costume and yet you do not wear it. Do you prefer your old costume? Only when the partners are alike in their sparkling costumes, can there be an accurate meeting in the sparkling region. The relationship of husband and wife is so intimate, so loving, that they are able to communicate with just a signal. In fact, even without a signal there is communication through subtle thoughts.
Where there is a relationship of such love, is it necessary to place a third one in the middle? To allow a third one to come means to waste time and energy. Yes, share the contents of your meetings and your heart-to-heart conversations with each other. Those who are alike are able to co-operate in this way. But do not take on the role of judge in your conversations with each other. Set aside all judges and make yourself content. Once your partner is chosen, why have anyone else interfere? To introduce a third one means to get lost in the ocean, and the husband has to come and rescue you.
If you do not even know how to change your costume, how can you change the world?
Achcha, to those who constantly understand the significance of all things; those who move accurately with knowledge of all methods; those who constantly maintain an intimate relationship, and so are ever-content, and bring contentment to all others; those who experience constantly the happiness of the meeting; those who are always Baba’s companions, who are always the observer; to such children, BapDada’s love, remembrance, and namaste.