I watched a TV interview of some lesbians, and the lady was describing her relationship with her girlfriend, how thay can spend hours in bed just chatting and cuddling each other, and reminded us of how often men, after de-sperming, just walk off, light up a cigarette and that's it ... Don't wanna say that all are brutes, but in the majority of cases, our needs and way of feeling, are so different!
Well, if I am to discover that I could be better off with women, or that I should give it a heartfelt try, what would be wrong with that after all?? It may sound very nasty , but in the seventies, there was a feminist slogan that went " a woman without a man, is like a fish without a bicycle!".
I think that one succesfull yukti to get men's love and respect (not of a very elevated kind, though!), is pretending that you cannot manage to do anything without them. Independent women pay very high prices for being self-sufficient, and it takes a lot of sensitivity for men to realize when and how to step in and "be there" to support. Of course, if you walk around in high heels all day and seem needy weak, and helpless, you get a lot more attention and cooperation. At least on a gross level. Most men are a bit "thick", or self centered, so I guess they need clear messages ... so, more squeaking and swaying of hips, could be useful!