XBK Chat (unofficial archive) A former meeting place for past members of Brahma Kumaris    FAQ   Search   Memberlist   Usergroups   Profile   You have no new messages   Log out   Backing off          XBK Chat Forum Index -> XBK issues..for XBKs ONLY View previous topic :: View next topic   Author Message anova Joined: 03 May 2004 Posts: 9 Posted: Tue Jun 01, 2004 3:26 pm    Post subject: Backing off Hi, I hadn't posted a message for a long while because my Boyfriend and I have had a really hard time of it. It's basically my fault, I would challenge him on the BK, he would defend them, I became frustrated and we would argue. He has asked me to stop trying to save him, a very profound penny dropped for me then, connected to my past. I have stopped trying to save him. Consider this if I were to save a drowning man others may consider me a hero, but the man would not really be saved until he had reconciled what had happened to him in his own head, thus he is the hero. I will still visit this site and will respond to messages sent to me, but I think it is time I saved myself. Thank you for all your support. Display posts from previous: All Posts1 Day7 Days2 Weeks1 Month3 Months6 Months1 Year Oldest FirstNewest First         XBK Chat Forum Index -> XBK issues..for XBKs ONLY All times are GMT - 5 Hours Page 1 of 1   You cannot post new topics in this forum You cannot reply to topics in this forum You cannot edit your posts in this forum You cannot delete your posts in this forum You cannot vote in polls in this forum Powered by phpBB © 2001, 2005 phpBB Group