This is meant to be the family path! Its crazy because it doesnt have to be that way. I know families of BKs where only 1 person is Gyan which do live together happily and where agreement has happened rather than cutting off and not taking emotional responsibility (mind you, they are where the woman is in Gyan, maybe this makes a difference?)
Very worthy consideration at the end here Yude about all okay situ seeming to apply to cases in which the wife is in Gyan and the husband not (I alluded to this possibility in a post elsewhere on the forum).
From these Sister's cases it definitely seems as if some center-in-charge do not know how to handle the reverse situ because their actions most certainly underline that old Murli point - much referenced as a Bhakti philosophy - in which the woman (in this case a non-bk) is seen as the "gateway to hell" - a particularly nasty analogy i happen to think.
Imagine all the male pre-adolescent BKs being fed a diet of this garbage everytime they hear a Murli. Could well be a negative influence on par, if not worse in some aspects, with the vile lyrics to be heard coming out of the mouths of rap music's famous.
Independent-minded, God loving souls such as your posts highlight you to be are either cast from a different mould from the majority BK population or Baba kept some children safe whilst inside so that when the time became righteous they would be able to commune with Gyani and agyani souls alike without losing any dignity or spiritual awareness; and I for one am ever mindful not to be a glove-puppet for any human being's side-show.
Anyway let us create whatever topic we think might serve to address these issues. For all we know the BK visitors to the site might read and learn something (just joking as they know everything there is to know about everything).