ex-l wrote:Do you think that applies equally to us during our sojourn in the Brahma Kumaris society?
Yes, of course. At least I know that I did and may others.
We lived as part of a community, and when in the company of that community, we acted as was considered acceptable.
Some may have acted fully pukka (hoping for some personal salvation or insight) and there were those who were OCD BKs. BKs in their homes but many others were way more relaxed and would do or think things at the level they felt comfortable (or guilty!) with. Some are more strict about food, others less. Some are more strict about what they intellectually consume media-wise (some will only ever read Murlis others read without qualms whatever takes their interest).
I remember many admonitions by Seniors of me and others about petty things, allowing a beard to grow (if you weren't a Sikh!), watching TV, going to the cinema. One big scandal was in a men's share house (Shanti Bhavan) when the football world cup was on and someone bought a second hand TV to watch. Another time I was called in by Janki for questioning after someone informed her I'd been going out to watch films (I remember seeing Kurosawa's Rashomon, Bruno Ganz in Circle of Deceit, Satyajit Ray's "Distant Thunder" - a less known but real gem of a film). Why would I regret any of that. And a classic memory for me from around that. One time Janki giving everyone toli, occasionally saying things to some. With me, she grabbed my hand, looked deep into my eyes and said, "You need to learn to feel guilt" WTF!!!!
Many of these strictures are not talked about anymore in Western BK communities, they're more interested in keeping punters coming than scaring them off. A few years ago, I asked one about what the current estimated date of Destruction was. The reply, oh, we don't believe there will be a global destruction anymore, it's a Transformation. (!)
Asked the next obvious question and that saw them turn away.
Back to topic. There is a quite well documented story about "the Shivapuri Baba" who lived to 137. He was advised by his guru, his grandfather, to learn about himself, God and the world, and he walked most of the way around the world (northern hemisphere). Much of it well documented.
Link here - with source biography at the bottom.