a) Appeal to them nicely at first ...
Explain that they have been sucked into a false End of the World cult that eats or destroys families.
Predictions of Destruction have failed many time but the BKWSU has kept all the money and properties.
b) If they do not leave nicely, speak to the rest of the family.
Make sure that they do not give them any money to follow the BKWSU.
Tell your Mother and Sister to earn their own money or ask the BKWSU to guarantee to support them for life.
Giving money to the BKWSU does not bring "good luck" or karma. It is not proper charity.
You could try showing your mother and Sister the pictures of the original cycle and original tree from the
Library section and tell them there is a site on the internet that tells the truth about the BKWSU, how they have been faking their history and revising all their predictions of Destruction since WWII or 1950, and how everyone knows this now.
c) Ask them why the BKWSU has hidden so much of its history, failed predictions and the bad things which have happened?
Yes, Baba or the leaders have made specific predictions of Destruction in WWII, 1950, 1976, mid-1980s and so on.
What do you think it is that holds your Sister and mother in the BKWSU?
Was it a way of escaping from their husbands or life?
Was there suffering or boredom?
How do your Father and brother-in-law react to the BKs?
If there were good aspects and experience to your mother and Sister's lives before, things they enjoyed, you could appeal to them by encouraging them to do those, e.g. walks, holidays, food, humor etc. Whatever it was. Try and keep them away from the BK community cleverly. Keep them busy at home.
Best, as annamaria says, avoid any direct conflict and letting them go into "BK teacher mode". The BKWSU cult personality is too well structured and defensive.
It will be tough if they are hooked ... and so be ready to cut them off completely and to save the rest of the family and the family's wealth.annamaria wrote:They never gave up the Sister and daughter they knew.
You raise an interesting point, Anna.
Sometimes it is almost as if there are two personalities in the one person. The older original personality - which can come out again - and a newer, superficial, cult based personality. Of course, the BKWSU says the old one is "all bad and impure" and prefers to limit the influence of old friends and family in order to strengthen the new one. Many of the BKs' rules are about doing this. They argue that the new personality is the pure one, original one, or the one becoming pure - but, mainly, it is just a personality that is submissive to the leaders and becoming like them. Actually, I don't think people really change that much at all.