You are very welcome to come on board ...
Perhaps leave the "confronting BK" to other forums, like the one at Ning.com, where you will find real live active BKs.
Any BK, or BK relative, that is here wants to be here, in order to give or learn. They are not responsible for the BKWSU or its teachings, they want to move on. You will just put them off if you do that ... unless, of course, they are being an idiot and then, be my guest, confront them all you like. We are also, most Westerners or Westernized BKs and the old Bharatwasi ways don't work so well.
Please, read up on the forum, document, discuss and, by all means, express your own grief if it is BK related ...