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- Joined: 29 Oct 2018
Hi!
My Father joined BK about 1 year back and now just in a year my family is about to be destroyed. My mother is so depressed that she is on the verge of committing suicide because it seems she has lost her husband emotionally, mentally and physically.
My Father wakes up at 3-4 am, does his meditation, gets ready and goes to office around 7. Then he comes back around 8-9 pm possibly he goes to the ashram nearby my house first and then comes. I have a younger Brother and a Sister, both have critical time of their study and both need my Father's attention and guidance but at this point he just doesn’t care about any of us.
On holidays he would go to ashram in the morning come back for lunch then again go back then come back for dinner and go off to sleep. He won’t talk to any of us or discuss anything with us or try to take any family responsibility. And all the time he is in house he would put his headphones on and keep listening to some BK stuff and won’t even want to listen to us. If he meets someone while he is out to walk he would start giving lectures about life at BK and start preaching them. Even our neighbors laugh at us that is he gone mad or has he become a saint.
My mother would get calls from relatives that what has happened to him. Even if we have to attend some family functions he would want to wear his white kurta payjama and refuse to wear decent clothes. So we have stopped going everywhere because we are mocked by society. And my Father doesn’t give a damn about our suffering. He is not in the least bothered about what is going on in our family.
But what worries me the most is that I don’t want to lose my mother. She has gone into depression. All she would talk about is committing suicide and killing herself or leaving the house and not coming back. She would not sleep and cry for hours. And yet my Father won’t be affected by all this. He would see my mother cry and put on his headphones and go to sleep without even talking to her.
Please help me. Please.
My Father joined BK about 1 year back and now just in a year my family is about to be destroyed. My mother is so depressed that she is on the verge of committing suicide because it seems she has lost her husband emotionally, mentally and physically.
My Father wakes up at 3-4 am, does his meditation, gets ready and goes to office around 7. Then he comes back around 8-9 pm possibly he goes to the ashram nearby my house first and then comes. I have a younger Brother and a Sister, both have critical time of their study and both need my Father's attention and guidance but at this point he just doesn’t care about any of us.
On holidays he would go to ashram in the morning come back for lunch then again go back then come back for dinner and go off to sleep. He won’t talk to any of us or discuss anything with us or try to take any family responsibility. And all the time he is in house he would put his headphones on and keep listening to some BK stuff and won’t even want to listen to us. If he meets someone while he is out to walk he would start giving lectures about life at BK and start preaching them. Even our neighbors laugh at us that is he gone mad or has he become a saint.
My mother would get calls from relatives that what has happened to him. Even if we have to attend some family functions he would want to wear his white kurta payjama and refuse to wear decent clothes. So we have stopped going everywhere because we are mocked by society. And my Father doesn’t give a damn about our suffering. He is not in the least bothered about what is going on in our family.
But what worries me the most is that I don’t want to lose my mother. She has gone into depression. All she would talk about is committing suicide and killing herself or leaving the house and not coming back. She would not sleep and cry for hours. And yet my Father won’t be affected by all this. He would see my mother cry and put on his headphones and go to sleep without even talking to her.
Please help me. Please.