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Saw the whole pic in a few months to a year. My story
I had just moved from my village home to a new place in a city for a job after completing my CA. I had left my family - wife, kid, parents back in the village bordering a city. Been in touch and visiting my folks regularly. In the months before coming to the city, I had an accident and my jaw was injured but got alright in a few weeks. In the new city, my job was good. However, one day early in the morning I had great pain in the mouth and started to almost fall unconscious.
One of the lady colleagues Karishma helped through the situation and started nursing me back to health over a two-week period. She informed her husband and had me shift closer to their home and started taking care of my food. In return, I used to pay them handsomely and buy gifts, etc regularly. There were these symbols and lights and photo in their house which suggested to me that they are believers of BK and had a flag outside their apartment. They took me to one lecture by Shivani and I was not convinced by the talk. Later the husband’s Sister, who is an ardent BK, came and wanted to brainwash me about BK, which I politely refused.
In the meanwhile, the food came, and my gifting continued. Many times, I noticed Karishma was flirting with another individual without her husband knowing, and because he was a rich person. A lot of her travelling to the office was taken care of by the rich guy. I benefitted too. One day I objected to her flirting, which I saw was bad, and she fought with me. I threatened to leave the place and move elsewhere. Immediately she falls at my feet and says she will never contact that rich guy and so the food keeps coming and my gifting and money for the food – which was higher than if could cook or even keep a maid. Somehow this family never let out their true BK practices, and I doubt they were true followers, except for that Sister. I changed my job in a nearby place that did not require so much travel.
Meanwhile, they brought a teenage boy who was orphan and wanted a job, so they got him a room nearby, got his driver’s license – he is now the driver and cooks, etc including taking care of their child and they ensure he pays from the salary he earns. He is enjoying it, but I consider he is being used.
Soon the flirting of Karishma started and I decided to move away from this sort of a family where they are exploitative, and whenever I don’t gift or give money their behavior used to become obnoxious. They always complained of dying or having serious medical problems, and continued to enjoy life.
I felt I had been brainwashed into being part of their system and never had the courage to move out. Finally, it did happen. I moved away from that place. The flirting is now with three or four men, and I know for sure the family believes in taking money from whoever is ready to pay. While the husband is helpless, as he depends on Karishma’s salary, Karishma continues to enjoy life despite being a patient of many illnesses. A lot of money is required for medicines, the EMI for loans taken, the child education, etc.
I moved out citing illness and a sad state of my jaws and requiring money for treatment. I vowed never to contact or call. But I used to get calls from Karishma who wanted to know if I am not well. Soon the calls stopped, but there is an underlying feeling that she will come back and offer help, etc. I know how to handle this but still, feel sad for the guys who do not know they are being taken for a ride by this Karishma for whom money matters most.
I did feel sad and lonely for a few weeks and now on way to recovery. Still, want the BK aspects to go out of my system; their constant thing of karma, not to be in touch with my wife, etc. I feel some hypnosis was done on me.
Hope I could get to know any instance like this anyone faced, and how they steered themselves free from such families?
I had just moved from my village home to a new place in a city for a job after completing my CA. I had left my family - wife, kid, parents back in the village bordering a city. Been in touch and visiting my folks regularly. In the months before coming to the city, I had an accident and my jaw was injured but got alright in a few weeks. In the new city, my job was good. However, one day early in the morning I had great pain in the mouth and started to almost fall unconscious.
One of the lady colleagues Karishma helped through the situation and started nursing me back to health over a two-week period. She informed her husband and had me shift closer to their home and started taking care of my food. In return, I used to pay them handsomely and buy gifts, etc regularly. There were these symbols and lights and photo in their house which suggested to me that they are believers of BK and had a flag outside their apartment. They took me to one lecture by Shivani and I was not convinced by the talk. Later the husband’s Sister, who is an ardent BK, came and wanted to brainwash me about BK, which I politely refused.
In the meanwhile, the food came, and my gifting continued. Many times, I noticed Karishma was flirting with another individual without her husband knowing, and because he was a rich person. A lot of her travelling to the office was taken care of by the rich guy. I benefitted too. One day I objected to her flirting, which I saw was bad, and she fought with me. I threatened to leave the place and move elsewhere. Immediately she falls at my feet and says she will never contact that rich guy and so the food keeps coming and my gifting and money for the food – which was higher than if could cook or even keep a maid. Somehow this family never let out their true BK practices, and I doubt they were true followers, except for that Sister. I changed my job in a nearby place that did not require so much travel.
Meanwhile, they brought a teenage boy who was orphan and wanted a job, so they got him a room nearby, got his driver’s license – he is now the driver and cooks, etc including taking care of their child and they ensure he pays from the salary he earns. He is enjoying it, but I consider he is being used.
Soon the flirting of Karishma started and I decided to move away from this sort of a family where they are exploitative, and whenever I don’t gift or give money their behavior used to become obnoxious. They always complained of dying or having serious medical problems, and continued to enjoy life.
I felt I had been brainwashed into being part of their system and never had the courage to move out. Finally, it did happen. I moved away from that place. The flirting is now with three or four men, and I know for sure the family believes in taking money from whoever is ready to pay. While the husband is helpless, as he depends on Karishma’s salary, Karishma continues to enjoy life despite being a patient of many illnesses. A lot of money is required for medicines, the EMI for loans taken, the child education, etc.
I moved out citing illness and a sad state of my jaws and requiring money for treatment. I vowed never to contact or call. But I used to get calls from Karishma who wanted to know if I am not well. Soon the calls stopped, but there is an underlying feeling that she will come back and offer help, etc. I know how to handle this but still, feel sad for the guys who do not know they are being taken for a ride by this Karishma for whom money matters most.
I did feel sad and lonely for a few weeks and now on way to recovery. Still, want the BK aspects to go out of my system; their constant thing of karma, not to be in touch with my wife, etc. I feel some hypnosis was done on me.
Hope I could get to know any instance like this anyone faced, and how they steered themselves free from such families?