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- Joined: 15 Jan 2014
Before responding to above problem, I would like to discuss your earlier post & would rather suggest to consider your decisions.
I saw your program on Astha Chanel. I like you very much. - referring to Shivani
That is what everyone feels when they watch her on much hyped programme. The reality should be disclosed to everyone (PP & ex-I have exposed Shivani number of times). Suppose you open a shop & start behaving badly to your customer, then what will be the result? Your shop will shut down within few days. So, in order to keep up the business, one needs good promotion, advertisement, crafty speeches, (unreliable) assurances etc etc.
These all are found in one & only Shivani. She has become a role model for many others BK behen-jis. So, whatever you see on Astha channel is a big trap & don't rely on it too much. Even if someone else would have been in her position, she would also have behaved same way. What they want is innocent customers & thats why she speak softly with fine gestures (though if you see her gestures & the way she speaks, you will get to know that it is all unreal & crafty possessing neither an Indian nor Western accent). I would personally like her if she behaves in more natural manner.
I always fear about god. - 15 Jan, 2014
If someone creates fear inside you, he is not God & cannot be considered a nice human being too. How God must be? Someone who accepts you the way you are, with all your problems, pains & sufferings. One who uses your weakness to overpower you & give command to follow rigorously or otherwise some dire consequences would come, is not worthy to be called God. In BK system, they put fear of their Baba inside innocent people as soon as they find your weakness, so decide who can be considered God?
Now your recent problems:
I am not able to break my thoughts.
No need to break it. Whoever asked you to break it must put a brake on his own thoughts which are misguiding you.
Breaking thought process means fracturing your mind. Do never try it. Let thoughts flow naturally. And thoughts stop naturally when it is needed. External efforts are not required at all.
Every time I fear.
Fear from what?
Suppose I am doing something i feel negative thoughts about my family members.
What is so astonishing about it? This happen to everyone these days, if they are not happening then either person is very disciplined or abnormal. As a matter of fact, in whole world other may try to hurt you, but only your family members will help in need. So, care about them & try to do introspection on why do you feel bad about them? Is it so that they are not fulfilling some of your demands? Or are they abusing you verbally? or are they too sticky than needed? Or are your expectations from family members is too high? Find out the cause behind your irritation towards them? You may discuss it here, we all will try to help you.
[But please don't go to BK center or they will detach you from your own family seeing this expected opportunity. Those who don't have these problems, it all starts after going to BK center].
After that I will do again and again same work, and my mind start making negative story.
First start observing whether any of your deed hurt others. If it does, then take steps to do same work in other manner. You have that needed flexibility otherwise you would have never disclosed your problem here.
And don't make stories, wait for the result, & you will find yourself that it is not so that you fail or other scold you every time. Mind is like that only, in fear it will make the most unexpected story & will try to pose nothing as something.
Also be open to your family members & tell them openly that see this is the work I am doing & tell me what should i do to avoid repetition of earlier mistakes. They will not bite you for that. Limited communication is also reason for such problems in family.
Every time my mind have negative thoughts.
Alright, if you have negative thoughts, try to pick few of them. Out of thousands, at least 2 or 3 can be selected. And then wait for the outcome. Match your thoughts with results. You will understand that negativity is just virtual & does not has a right hand in shaping up your future, it just degrades performance. Without negativity also, you can live.
Absence of negative thoughts will not reduce span of day.