- Posts: 4
- Joined: 23 Apr 2012
Hi all, been here before years ago. My husband, whom I have been with for 8 years, is a BK but very much on and off, sometimes he doesn't go for months, then all of sudden it all starts up again. Last time was over a year ago, then his Father passed away couple of months ago! Since then he has been back, packed up smoking which, yeh, is a good thing, but with that has come being a veggie!!
He becomes very distant. I know it sounds weird but I can tell by the look of his face, that's it not my husband the man I love!! Its like a robot. He tries to get me to go to his meeting saying I should take an interest in things he finds interesting, as he does things with me even if he not interested!! I have been in the past only a few times to be honest. One of the big meeting things wasn't too bad, but not my cup of tea. The other time I felt intimidated!!
It is really getting me down now. If I am upset, he wont even come n hug me. It's all about him, but he will say its all about me !!
He was going to the morning meditations, although that has stopped for the mo!! He seems like he got no get up n go, more like he got up n gone!! Is not showering part of the BK ways as well? Just out of interest.
Any advice will be much appreciated !!
He becomes very distant. I know it sounds weird but I can tell by the look of his face, that's it not my husband the man I love!! Its like a robot. He tries to get me to go to his meeting saying I should take an interest in things he finds interesting, as he does things with me even if he not interested!! I have been in the past only a few times to be honest. One of the big meeting things wasn't too bad, but not my cup of tea. The other time I felt intimidated!!
It is really getting me down now. If I am upset, he wont even come n hug me. It's all about him, but he will say its all about me !!
He was going to the morning meditations, although that has stopped for the mo!! He seems like he got no get up n go, more like he got up n gone!! Is not showering part of the BK ways as well? Just out of interest.
Any advice will be much appreciated !!