Dear Global soul,
1) When two ladies see a small boy crying, both do not experience the same. The mother will experience sorrow. The other lady may not. Both see and understand the situation to the same extent. But the ACCEPTANCY is different. One feels that the child in MINE, the other feels that Child is not mine.
2) Similarly, a mother can love her child even if the child is present among 10 children. She selects her child and embraces her child. Suppose, say the mother does not know who her child is. Now, this is our case. We know that Shiva is a point, but do not know who is he among 600 crores.
*I have already said that it is impossible to distinguish Shiva physically by any means since Shiva does not have body of his own. But, there is difference. Every soul is unique. What I do is, “I visualize (think of) two points and consider one of them myself and the other as ShivaBaba. Unless you consider yourself as a point (soul), you cannot remember ShivaBaba (Supreme Soul).
I distinguish the points intellectually. I consider one point (myself) to be child of the other point (Baba). I consider the other point as Ocean of knowledge, love, bliss, peace, etc (you all know). I consider the first point (myself) as a lucky soul in the Drama and just feel immersed in love of the other point.
3) A person may get heart attack and die when he hears a bad message. (The same message can be nothing to another). Why? It is because of acceptancy. For acceptancy, clear understanding (knowledge) and faith (love) are necessary. A child will not get heart attack even if its mother dies. It will just cry. Because it has no knowledge of life.
So if a negative thought can kill a person, cannot a positive thought build character of a person? This is what Baba does.
It is not possible to make a child get stressed. Because it does not have ego. It has only limited knowledge. Unless ego develops, you can’t proceed. Due to body-consciuousness, wrong ego develops which forces us to do negative actions and we experience negative pleasures and pain. Soul consciousness develops right ego (swamaan) and you get elevated. You enjoy positive pleasures and there is no pain at all. Even the pain(tests) will become pleasure later. *A good student may sacrifice his sleep to score better marks. He does not feel unhappy or tired, because the result brings happiness. Similarly the obstacles in Brahmin life bring happiness if the BK is an honest student.
*So, I think we have to differentiate intellectually and not by corporeal things.
4) Another thing:- I do not think Paramdham is full of light. It will be darkness to physical eyes. Then why it said, “It is Golden yellow color?”. We human beings are totally body-conscious. We cannot remember something what we cannot see. We cannot see anything without light. We cannot think or concentrate what we cannot see. Gold is the best one. So, it might have been said, Paramdham is golden yellow.
5) Soul is divine light and might:- Anything that radiates is light. Everyone radiates his personality (except deadbody). This is why man loves or fears of man due to positive or negative qualities of the other. So, it is the soul that radiates. Hence I consider the meaning of light as power to think, discriminate and act. More positive you are, more you can influence.
6) But, while remembering (Yoga), I will consider two lights (points) in a world of light. Then what else is better than this? *Can you think of an electron? We draw an electron to much a larger scale, but are conscious that its radius is in the order of 1/(ten to the power of 33, something). Do you say, “electron is not like that, the drawing is wrong”. If you say like that, you can never progress. You can never study. Later, when you do research you may get microscope and understand better. But again, if you are given microscopic view in the beginning itself, you will NOT UNDERSTAND ANYTHING!. So initially all these things are needed.
Similarly I think two points of a comfortable size in light, but have in conscious that I am really not physical.
7) So, in learning anything, there are many methods; listening, reading, audio visual aids, etc. So all the methods are right. I am not against PBKs’ method of remembering Shiva in VD’s body. Even many BKs today remember Shiva in Brahma’s body. BUT WHEN PBKs SAY THEIR METHOD ONLY IS CORRECT (making compulsory to remember body also with the soul), I do not agree with it. This is why I had asked them how much control you (PBKs) have over your organs. Ultimately, that alone can explain what true Yaad is. Otherwise these discussions will be very lengthy and never end.
bansy wrote:If ShivBaba is able to enter a Chariot, then it means He is able to stay in the Chariot for an indefinite period. Where else can He go. I suppose the question I am posing is why are BapDada meetings only a few hours long ? And why in the evening ? Why not from the morning, throughout the day and into early evening ? In lokik life, children go to sleep at 10.00pm. Then why does BapDada come up so late in the evening and upto midnight ? On the one hand you are to wake up at 4.00am and go to bed before 10pm (Madhuban rules), yet on the other hand BapDada himself breaks these very rules. Can any BK child answer this ? What time did Father Shiva some into Brahma Baba (Lekhraj Kirpalani) to speak the Murli and why are the hours changed now ? Any BK child able to understand this ? Where was Father Shiva when Brahma Baba (Lekhraj Kirpalani) was taking a hike up through Lake Nakka and up the rock?
Dear bansy soul,
Previously BapDada used to stay in Gulzar Dadi’s body for 10 hours. So if MILAN was done in day, there would not be discipline. Children will go out frequently for food, toilets, etc. Another thing is, then some will have to do cooking and more maintenance. They will not be able to take part in Milan.
In day time, there would be disturbance from visitors, phone calls, etc. This will definitely make the process difficult and children would get difficulty in concentration.
Milan is only for BKs, not for outsiders. So some secrecy should be there. So, night time is better. Previously, Shiva used to come daily, so short meeting (class) was enough and the number of students were less. Now, there are students sitting from all over the world!
PLEASE NOTE that Baba has clearly mentioned in Murlis that I will not sit in charriot all the time.
I have not asked any SS or senior Brothers for explanation for this. These are my thoughts.