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- Joined: 07 Jan 2017
Om Shanti!
Firstly, I'd thank you for your enlightening videos that help us understand life and related philosophy. But, I've have a common problem that I get stuck in emotions whenever it comes to taking decisions. I start thinking for others, especially my closed ones and the impact of my decisions on their life.
I've seen two videos of yours - don't expect from others and everybody has their own perceptions. You should accept people as they are and respect their thoughts too. I got this point.
But, how to take decisions? for example, I was working in some other city since last two years. I struggles and made my career on my own and it was pretty good, suddenly my family called me back and now they're not allowing me to pursue. I know I am good at my work and can excel well in future. But my parents are more concerned about society and people's opinion. I tried making them understand. I understand their concern that I am staying alone in a different city, I am a girl ... etc. But, what about my career, my dreams, my passion? Please guide me ... how to take decisions, especially when your own people don't support you?
Guys, please enlighten me ... guide me.
Firstly, I'd thank you for your enlightening videos that help us understand life and related philosophy. But, I've have a common problem that I get stuck in emotions whenever it comes to taking decisions. I start thinking for others, especially my closed ones and the impact of my decisions on their life.
I've seen two videos of yours - don't expect from others and everybody has their own perceptions. You should accept people as they are and respect their thoughts too. I got this point.
But, how to take decisions? for example, I was working in some other city since last two years. I struggles and made my career on my own and it was pretty good, suddenly my family called me back and now they're not allowing me to pursue. I know I am good at my work and can excel well in future. But my parents are more concerned about society and people's opinion. I tried making them understand. I understand their concern that I am staying alone in a different city, I am a girl ... etc. But, what about my career, my dreams, my passion? Please guide me ... how to take decisions, especially when your own people don't support you?
Guys, please enlighten me ... guide me.