Sorry for late late response. I was getting some quote error which i could not get around earlier. I figured it out and fixed my text and am able to post now.
littleo, You are not obligated to answer me, If you do not want to.
But I am obligated to find answers for the loss of my family member, broken family relations and loss of property, which is inflicted by BKWSU's lust for its expansion, money, property, fame, luxury and easy life for its leaders.
littleo wrote: No one is taught to break his family or treat them badly, it is some twisted understanding
In my case, my family BK (MFBK) did not treat us badly. He is just treating us that we are not his family and the BKWSU is his family. He had been serving BKWSU ~ 100% of time for more than a decade. He is either away from home most of the time OR, when he is at home, he is on the phone talking to BK teachers or other BKs. Hard to get him on the phone as well for family members. Doesn't that qualify to be termed as brain washing?
The only information flow (95%) to his brain is from BK teachers and other BKs. Yet, we (our family) lived in harmony because I took the responsibility of bread winning and fulfilling family members responsibilities (education, marriage, medical and so on ..) alone. The only reason we broke is because of the property grabbing in the name of donation to the BKWSU and its leaders and followers.
I have requested for MFBK teacher's or senior's contact information, so that I can talk to them and clarify and/or make a deal, on what we can and will donate/give and what we can not/will not. But I was absolutely denied to given their contact information. Mediators, who spoke to the BK teachers/Seniors, told me that they will accept property if my MFBK decides to give but they would not advise MFBK to go along with family members advice. Also they showed no interest in talking to me either. Put yourself in my shoes and feel it. Seriously, please ...
I am using mediators and are calling (forced) them to donate (or cut a deal to limit my losses) and they show no respect to listen/talk to me directly? This is mafia behavior by BKs.
I have no problem if MFBK earns and donates to BKWSU or anyone else for that matter. I also have no problem he serving 200% of his time to BKWSU instead of 100%. But, why does he fight with us to donate something that is not made from his sweat or blood? Why was he angry (I know they do not teach this, but they encourage BKs to use this tool for moments when they are grabbing properties) with me until the BKWSU gets away with what they want (donations), and did not think about the sweat and blood I put for building that property?
Why does the BKWSU not have any ethics to make a policy that they would not accept family money/property? And that they would not accept property donations that are causing family breakups?
So, at least in our case, MFBK had no twisted understanding of BKWSU and its leaders teachings.
littleo wrote:If someone is giving wrong teachings it is also his own misunderstanding and the blame should not extend to the teaching itself or others.
Well, MFBK is not in the classroom for an hour or two. He is in BKWSU possession full-time for more than a decade. If he is misunderstanding, does it not mean there is fundamentally something wrong in the BKWSU's teaching, its methodology or philosophy? And why do not those teachers/leaders come and help him so that he will not break up family relationships?
I am challenging them to step up now and fix my family relationship and step away from my property immediately.Why do they teach him that they are his family and we are not?
Should I not blame BKWSU for this? Who calls MFBK to Mount Abu as many as 5 times a year for weeks at a stretch? They gave him a best bribe once.
Free one way air ticket to Mount Abu. Costs how much? 1,000 to 3,000 rupees? And that's their investment on him to grab property and his labor for over decade?littleo, again, you are not obligated to answer me. I am not targeting you personally.
But any one who is not a fundamentalist BK can answer me.
Well, I might even take an officially appointed fundamentalist by BKWSU as well.
I landed on this website, when every thing was shattering in our lives but we could not comprehend what and why this was happening and what to expect next? Because there is no information coming to us from our family BK as to what is going on that is controlling his strange behavior and thinking.
Once I discovered this site through a special effort and search on the internet, I had most of my questions answered about his behavior and what to expect next. I wish, I had known about this site many years ago.
but if he is not here to present the case .. .. I say that your family member should also be given the right to speak here if he wishes to.
Well, I introduced this site to him. I am not sure if he is even following. Even if he is following, he will not write here. Because he has no time to write here. He is busy serving to BKWSU 24 x 7 x 365. And, as far as anonymity is concerned, I might be anonymous to every one, but not for MFBK, from what I am writing here on these posts.