Here is the Ambedkarite ex-Brahma Kumari approach.
Ambedkarite ex-BK-ism - Freeing ex-BKs from Brahma Kumarism
I shall have no faith in Brahma Kumaris nor shall I support them any more.
I shall have no faith in Lehkraj Kripalani who was believed to be incarnation of God nor shall I remember him.
I shall have no faith in the senior Sisters, any Didis, Dadia or even Sister Shivani nor shall I listen them.
I do not believe Shiva is God.
I do not and shall not believe that Lehkraj Kripalani was the incarnation of Krishna or Narayan. I believe this to be sheer madness and false propaganda.
I shall not perform their meditation nor read any more Murlis.
I shall act according to my own commonsense and experience.
I shall not attend any service programmes organised by the Brahma Kumaris.
I shall believe in the spiritual equality of humanity.
I shall endeavor to establish equality.
I shall live my own life.
I shall do my best to be compassionate, loving and protect others but wont get to hung up if I do not make to perfection or enlightenment in this life.
I shall not give or collect money for the BKWSU.
I shall not do any more service for the BKWSU.
I shall not be too hung up if I happen to enjoy a little sex, drugs (including alcohol and caffeine) and rock'n'roll or enjoy watching a movie now and again.
I shall endeavor to follow my own life and learn from my own experiences.
I renounce Brahma Kumarism, which is harmful for humanity and impedes the advancement and development of humanity because it is based on inequality.
I firmly believe there is no "only true religion" and admit that I do not really know if re-birth exists or not.
I solemnly declare and affirm that I shall hereafter lead my life as an ex-BK until I die.