In the West, purity doesn’t count. No one thinks about it. When a boy is celibate, he is called pure; when a girl is celibate, she is also called pure. But as Brother ex-l has already said it is difficult to find those ones in the West. However, purity is especially attributed to woman.
In the West, women fight for freedom and independence. She can be with many men doesn’t matter. The man can be with many women doesn’t matter. This makes the relationship between man and woman very short lasting. And people have lost the ability to maintain a long and pure relationship. Without sex they see no point.
My personal opinion is that a woman can never be happy with many men nor a man with many women. One woman needs only one man and one man needs only one woman. People have lost themselves even to such an extend that they seek comfort in professional advancement, study, flirting, friends, hobby, travel, but how will they journey away from what it is the intrinsic attribute of the soul to combine and maintain a relationship. We may say, "hallo", 100 times a day to 100 different people but the conversation does not proceed. We may have 100 nights with 100 different lovers that will never continue. So our energy flies away like this. Now, Baba says purity means to belong to one. The Supreme Soul bounds the souls in such a way that they remain partner to each other for 21 births.
So what we are now to do those who try to follow purity in such circumstances that even if one man is with one woman physically his mind is with many woman continuously? Generally, adultery happens due to the attraction of the body. One can make a promise to remain together and be faithful, but the desire for physical pleasures arise and one thinks what I’m going to lose, then he even hides from his wife what he has done but tells his friends. Now, how will he look in the eyes of his wife anymore? Leave this matter aside, people nowadays even live together with years in hatred. They even don’t speak to one another, so they say it is better that we separate.
What a constructive idea do I offer in this world where someone even says it is not normal if one does not have girls again and again? We should not hide. What we do is not bad. What we do is right. Those who will not like purity that will not leave adulteration, they will desire that every woman becomes mine, but this is not possible. Conflict arises only because of this single matter of purity.
In the West, women fight for freedom and independence. She can be with many men doesn’t matter. The man can be with many women doesn’t matter. This makes the relationship between man and woman very short lasting. And people have lost the ability to maintain a long and pure relationship. Without sex they see no point.
My personal opinion is that a woman can never be happy with many men nor a man with many women. One woman needs only one man and one man needs only one woman. People have lost themselves even to such an extend that they seek comfort in professional advancement, study, flirting, friends, hobby, travel, but how will they journey away from what it is the intrinsic attribute of the soul to combine and maintain a relationship. We may say, "hallo", 100 times a day to 100 different people but the conversation does not proceed. We may have 100 nights with 100 different lovers that will never continue. So our energy flies away like this. Now, Baba says purity means to belong to one. The Supreme Soul bounds the souls in such a way that they remain partner to each other for 21 births.
So what we are now to do those who try to follow purity in such circumstances that even if one man is with one woman physically his mind is with many woman continuously? Generally, adultery happens due to the attraction of the body. One can make a promise to remain together and be faithful, but the desire for physical pleasures arise and one thinks what I’m going to lose, then he even hides from his wife what he has done but tells his friends. Now, how will he look in the eyes of his wife anymore? Leave this matter aside, people nowadays even live together with years in hatred. They even don’t speak to one another, so they say it is better that we separate.
What a constructive idea do I offer in this world where someone even says it is not normal if one does not have girls again and again? We should not hide. What we do is not bad. What we do is right. Those who will not like purity that will not leave adulteration, they will desire that every woman becomes mine, but this is not possible. Conflict arises only because of this single matter of purity.