ex-l wrote, and I agree with him:
It is all about social control and keeping their business running (applies to BK more than PBK).
Families and children draw all your time and finances. This is why we are instructed to remain single and give everything to the Yagya.
What people do to entertain/seduce a partner? Movies, holidays, Valentine's, flowers, jewellery, perfumes, sexy lingerie,restaurants, condoms, new houses and furniture and sheets.. what a waste!
Percy Sledge wrote:Song: When A Man Loves A Woman
When a man loves a woman, cannot keep his mind on nothing else
He'll trade the world, for the good thing he's found
If she's bad he cannot see it, she can do no wrong
Turn his back on his best friend, if he put her down
When a man loves a woman, spend his very last dime
Tryin' to hold on to what he needs, he'd give up all his comfort
Sleep out in the rain, if she said that's the way it ought to be
Well, this man loves a woman, I gave you everything I had
Tryin' to hold on to your precious love, baby, please don't treat me bad
When a man loves a woman, down deep in his soul
She can bring him such misery, if she plays him for a fool
He's the last one to know, lovin' eyes cannot ever see
When a man loves a woman, he can do no wrong
He can never own some other girl, yes when a man loves a woman
I know exactly how he feels, 'cause baby, baby, baby, you're my world
I agree also with the things Paul and Joel said. It is true that you could check similar topics i.e. "why nobody wants to discuss the biggest test", in the BK. I remember some interesting points there, especially some shared by Pilatus and Howiemac on Oct. 1st on the heart chakra and transforming the energy. As a woman I can say that I appreciate people having a soul conscious vision for each other and I consider "criminal" someone that thinks of me as a sexual object (neither I consider men as such!). He will have to love me first as a soul,
then we can negotiate something and
maybe I can show some flesh and lift the saree few inches
But there are many other abusive behaviours in the BK that are accepted and encouraged, such as bossiness, slander, belittling, manipulation, etc. They are not excessive, they are rampant! I don't see why the sex related crimes should be considered as the most serious ones in this spiritual community. It seems that many Sisters (and Brothers too!!) have flirtatious behaviours (cockteasers
) or that they divert sexual energy towards bossiness rather than spiritual love. The famous chakra of tyranny!